It really is over to you. It is important not to harbour resentment or resort to pettiness. Let certain things stay beneath you. Life is not something to be messed with, so take it seriously; even as you keep your sense of humour. Send past angst and distress into the ether to be transmuted and modify your expectations. You do not want to be left sitting around still waiting in years’ to come. Calm down and follow your gut instincts.